There's tons of great lifts out there that you can put on your rig that will suit your needs like MetalCloak, Synergy, Icon, etc. It just depends on how much you want to spend. For my rig, it's also a dd and a weekend warrior and I drive my rig to the trails, wheel and then drive home and at the time I bought a lift, I went with the Synergy Stage 2 lift with 3" lift; not too hard core but enough to handle 35's and some moderate wheeling (there's enough adjust-ability in all of the components to keep the ride smooth). Also, take a look at the Metalcloak mid arm system. I've have a couple of friends running that lift and have been very happy with it.